There’s nothing quite like having your first time. It’s a huge moment that will stick with you forever.

But it doesn’t have to be as scary as you think. Here are a few tips for virgins to help you make it as smooth as possible. First, remember to always be prepared.

1. Don’t be afraid to talk about your fantasies

We’ve all got fantasies – and it turns out they’re a lot more common than you might think. According to a survey of 4,000 people, there are 7 main sexual fantasy themes that are universal. Whether you’re the dom or the virgin, chances are that these fantasies turn you on and make you want to act them out IRL.

But talking about your fantasies is a tricky thing. After all, you might feel a bit vulnerable and you don’t want to come across as creepy. That’s why it is important to choose your partner carefully and to have an open conversation with them about sex.

But be careful not to bombard them with questions – this is just as uncomfortable for them as it is for you. You should also remember that sex isn’t something you have to do. It’s a choice – and you should only lose your virginity when you feel ready to. It’s not a requirement, like going to school or having a job. It’s a choice that should be made with someone you trust and like.

2. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want

While men don’t have nearly as many taboos around virginity as women do, the idea of losing their virginity can still be a scary one. For that reason, they also need to know how to ask for what they want from their sexual experience.

For example, they might want to try oral sex before trying anything else. They may also want to use lube before starting and make sure they have plenty of condoms on hand.

Often, first time virgins don’t achieve orgasms because they are worried about the size and shape of their penises or vaginas. However, it is important to remember that the vagina can stretch and shape itself to pleasure even a small penis.

For this reason, it is important to not be afraid to ask for what you want and to let your partner know what works and what doesn’t. This will help both of you have a more enjoyable sex experience. It will also make it less likely that you will feel uncomfortable or embarrassed if things don’t quite work out the way you planned.

3. Don’t be afraid to ask for help

Many virgins find that it is helpful to talk with a trusted partner about their first time. It can be helpful to ask them to give sex tips, especially about using foreplay and how to reach orgasm. This can make the experience more enjoyable and less scary for the virgin.

However, it is important to remember that the first time will not be perfect. It is likely that a virgin will have some pain, which can be caused by various things such as tearing of the hymen, lack of lubrication, or even from nervousness. It is important to communicate with your partner about how you are feeling and to take breaks if necessary.

In addition, it is important for virgins to understand that they may face discrimination from other people. This is especially true for older virgins, who may find that their peers are not as open to dating virgins. Therefore, it is important for virgins to be comfortable with their sexuality and to be able to explain it to potential partners. This will help them avoid any problems in the future.

4. Don’t be afraid to let go of your expectations

Having sex for the first time can be overwhelming. You may have high expectations, and you’ll probably want it to be perfect. However, it’s important to remember that this isn’t necessarily the case.

While it’s perfectly normal to be excited about losing your virginity, it’s also important to have realistic expectations. Your first time won’t be a bloodbath, and the skies are unlikely to open up with angels singing in them. You’ll probably need a lot of lube, and your hymen may not pop like in the movies.

It’s also important to have a plan for what you’re going to do during sex. If you’re a virgin, you should consider asking for tips on how to do things correctly. It’s also a good idea to use condoms. Lastly, you’ll want to choose a private place where you won’t be interrupted. A bedroom or bathroom is a good option. If you’re with a non-virgin, make sure they know what to do if there are problems or sex doesn’t happen. This will avoid embarrassment and make things more enjoyable for both of you.

5. Don’t be afraid to be honest

There is a lot of pressure on virgins to lose their virginity, but it’s important to remember that it’s not something that you have to do just to fit in. It’s also important to be honest about what you want out of your sex life. If you’re only interested in casual hookups, that’s fine. Just be sure to communicate that to your partner so they can respect your boundaries.

You should also be honest about your fears and concerns. For example, if you’re afraid of pain or bleeding, be sure to let your partner know. They can then take steps to make the experience as safe as possible.

And finally, it’s important to be honest about what turns you on. If you want to reach an orgasm during sex, it’s unlikely that it will happen the first time around. But as you both become more comfortable and familiar with each other’s bodies, it will likely get easier. Just be sure to communicate with your partner about what you’re looking for so they can provide it.